Simply link to this address on your website

http://fluffyhandcuffs.co.uk/partners.php?partner=x


Here is the HTML code:
<a href='http://www.diy-dating.com/partners.php?partner=x'>fluffyhandcuffs.co.uk</a>
You can use any method of linking as long as you link to that same URL
(replace x with your partner id)